Transformational coaching for people who are done performing okayness — and ready to do the work that actually shifts things. Not happiness. Clarity. Not performance. Ground.
You understand your patterns intellectually — and still can't seem to stop them. The gap between who you are and who you want to be is getting harder to ignore.
You've done therapy, read the books, listened to the podcasts. Something is still missing. The root hasn't been touched.
You react in ways that don't reflect who you want to be. You know it's disproportionate. You still can't stop it in the moment.
You carry grief that doesn't have a name, or one the world has told you should be over by now. It lives in the body even when the mind has moved on.
You keep ending up in the same relationship dynamics no matter who you're with. Different people, same wound.
Something in your relationship with money, receiving, or worthiness feels blocked — and you suspect it goes deeper than strategy.
Four proprietary modalities built around one core belief: transformation happens in the trigger, not after it.
The foundation. Gaining objective perspective on your reality, learning to depersonalize triggers, and finding neutral ground where your past no longer runs your present.
Deep shadow work to surface hidden wounds and dismantle the limiting beliefs operating below the surface. We name the actual landscape without editing it for palatability.
Integration and revelation. Where your true self emerges free from old conditioning — with clarity on purpose, calling, and authentic expression.
Advanced work for integrating every aspect of self — light and shadow — into unified consciousness. For those ready to stop managing patterns and start dissolving them at the root.
Four steps. Breakdown to breakthrough. Applied in real time — not days after the moment has passed.
Step out of the avatar. View the situation from above — not as the one drowning, but as the one watching. Bird's eye perspective creates space where there was only reaction.
What is this reflecting back to me internally? Not "why is this happening to me" — but "what is this showing me about what I'm carrying?"
This reaction is not who you are — it's a pattern that was installed. Systemic, not personal. That distinction creates the first real opening for change.
Use breath and intention to consciously shift the frequency. Not to suppress — to alchemize. The emotion becomes information. The trigger becomes the teacher.
Your presence, feelings, and existence weren't fully acknowledged. Shows up as needing external validation, over-explaining, working twice as hard to be noticed.
Your voice didn't land. What you said was dismissed or overridden. Creates difficulty advocating for yourself or feeling chronically misunderstood.
Love was conditional — given when you performed correctly, withdrawn when you didn't. Creates people-pleasing and the fear of being truly known.
Your environment was volatile or unpredictable. Wires a nervous system that scans for threat even when the danger is long gone.
There is no standard curriculum here. We meet on a discovery call, look honestly at where you are, and together we build the path your specific situation requires — drawing from every modality available. You leave each session with something to work with. You leave the container changed.
A discovery call is required before entering any program.
A free 30-minute conversation before any commitment. You share where you are and what you're carrying. Lacey listens, asks real questions, and tells you honestly what she sees and how she works. If it's not the right fit, she'll tell you clearly.
No pitch. No pressure. Just a real conversation.
Private 60-minute sessions via video. Each container is built specifically for you — the modalities, the focus, the pacing. Nothing is templated. You receive custom resources, journal prompts, exercises, and homework that are yours to keep long after the work ends.
Below is the full library of what we can draw from. Some clients work through all of it. Others go deep into one thread. We'll know together what your path needs.
From reaction to observation. From trigger to treasure.
The core of everything. Learning to step outside your own experience and see it clearly — without defense, without judgment, without the weight of the story you've been telling yourself. Reality becomes a mirror. Triggers become information. The chaos stops being personal.
A proprietary 4-part process for moving through a trigger in real time — not days after.
The ego, the inner child, and the higher self — finally in conversation.
You are not one thing. You are three aspects in constant negotiation — and when they're working against each other, everything feels like a fight. This modality names the three, honors each one's role, and teaches them to work together. The ego stops being the enemy. The inner child stops running the show. The higher self stops feeling out of reach.
Each aspect has a role, a need, and a gift. Mastery comes from letting all three exist — and knowing which one to lead with.
What's underneath the behavior is always the wound.
The patterns you keep repeating, the ways you keep ending up in the same place — they aren't random, and they aren't who you are. They're layers. This work goes beneath the behavior to the belief, beneath the belief to the wound, and names it without flinching. We don't edit for palatability. We look at what's actually there.
Built around the four core wounds — Unseen, Unheard, Unloved, Unsafe — and the golden shadow that lives on the other side of each one.
The shadow has been met. Now meet yourself.
After the excavation comes the emergence. This is where what you found becomes what you build from. Identity gets reclaimed. The golden shadow — everything you've admired in others that was actually yours all along — comes home. You stop performing who you think you should be and start recognizing who you already are.
Purpose, voice, and direction clarify naturally when the performing stops. This is where that happens.
When managing the pattern isn't enough anymore.
For those who've done foundational work and are ready to go further. Not managing the pattern — dissolving it at the root. This level integrates every aspect of self — light and shadow both — into unified, whole consciousness. The work stops being about healing old wounds and becomes about consciously mastering the reality you're creating.
This work requires a foundation. We'll know on a discovery call whether you're ready for this level — and if not yet, what gets you there.
Some work needs more than a weekly call. These options exist for the client who is in it — actively, intensely — and needs support that meets the work where it actually lives.
Most healing happens in retrospect — you process what happened after the fact, once you've calmed down. In The Trigger™ is different. It meets you in the actual moment — when the pattern is running, when you're about to make the choice you've made a hundred times before.
Your chest is tight. Your thoughts are spiraling. You reach out. And we work through it together. Right then — not three days later when the moment has already passed.
VIP Access is the complete container — weekly sessions, In The Trigger™ support built in, all modalities, fully customized path. For those who are done dabbling and ready to go all the way in.
Weekly sessions + In The Trigger™ + every modality + fully custom path. The complete container.
All options begin with a discovery call. This level of support requires genuine readiness.
The mother wound is not a story about blame. It is an energetic inheritance — beliefs, emotional patterns, and survival strategies passed down through the maternal line before you had language for any of it. The Lineage Code™ is a dedicated 12-week healing program designed to trace that inheritance to its source, work through it with care, and make the conscious choice to stop passing it forward.
A 12-week framework, six phases, eight roots. The full architecture is revealed inside the program — not before. This is the work done when you're ready for it.
Clarity about your own identity — separate from her fears and her unfinished work. Knowing where she ends and you genuinely begin.
Genuine equanimity in interactions with her — not coldness, not performance, but ground.
Real shifts in your money reality — in what you charge, what you receive, what you believe you deserve.
Freedom to surpass her in health, finances, and peace without the guilt that previously pulled you back.
The capacity to let good things in — without bracing for what comes next.
The conscious choice to be where the wound stops — and is no longer passed forward.
The Echo isn't the end of your progress. It's the receipt that something real shifted.
You make a breakthrough. Everything feels clear. And then — a few days later — everything falls apart. A conflict appears. You get sick. An old dynamic resurfaces out of nowhere.
That's not a setback. That's The Echo. It's the ego's response to genuine change. When something real shifts, the old identity tests the new ground — sending chaos to ask: are you sure? Do you really mean it this time?
Most people in an Echo conclude they didn't really heal anything. The opposite is true. The Echo only arrives when something real shifted. The chaos is proportional to the size of the breakthrough.
Learning to recognize and move through The Echo — without collapsing back — is one of the most important skills this work teaches.
Book a Discovery CallI came to it through loss. Through the kind of grief that rearranges you. Through patterns I kept repeating in relationships until I finally stopped running from them and started sitting with them.
I spent 23 years as a master stylist and international hair educator — on stages worldwide, building a salon from the ground up. And underneath all of it, I was quietly doing the deeper work: training as a coach, studying grief and attachment theory, completing yoga certification, and doing my own healing in the spaces no one else could see.
What I know now: the outer transformation and the inner transformation are the same thing. You cannot separate who you are showing up as from what you are carrying inside.
Higher Elevation Alchemy exists because I needed it to exist — and because I know I'm not the only one who does.
Is this therapy?
No. Coaching is not therapy and Lacey is not a therapist. Coaching is forward-focused, working with where you are now and where you want to go. If clinical mental health support is what's needed, she will tell you that honestly.
Do I have to be in Denver?
No. All sessions are via video call. Lacey works with clients across the US and internationally. Location is never a barrier.
What if I'm not sure this is the right fit?
That's what the discovery call is for. It's free, 30 minutes, and zero pressure. If it's not right, you'll leave with clarity about what might serve you better.
How long does coaching take?
It depends on what you're working on. Some people do a single session. Some do 12 months. We'll have an honest conversation on the discovery call about what your situation actually needs.
What do sessions look like?
60 minutes via video call. Real work — not just talking about doing work. You'll leave with clarity, integration practices, and a clear next step.
Can I do this alongside therapy?
Yes. Many clients work with both a therapist and a coach simultaneously. They serve different purposes and complement each other well.
What is The Lineage Code™?
A proprietary 12-week modality focused on the mother wound — the inherited emotional patterns, survival strategies, and abundance blocks passed down through the maternal line.
What is "In The Trigger" coaching?
Real-time Voxer support during moments of active emotional activation — in the moment, not after. Available as an add-on to any active coaching container ($555/month) or as a standalone without a coaching container ($888/month). Discovery call required. Limited spots.
A discovery call is free, 30 minutes, and zero pressure. You share where you are and what you're carrying. Lacey shares how she works and whether she can genuinely help. Then you decide.
If it's not the right fit, she will tell you. She only works with people she believes she can actually support.
No commitment. No sales pitch. Just a real conversation.